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ykhong27
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05-Feb-2007 18:03
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Frankauerbach - sorry to hear your bad experience. Might need to be careful with such posts though .... legal issues. Can anyone advise? |
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chinkiasu
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05-Feb-2007 17:38
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Actually, what is the best way to handle such problem? |
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sohguanh
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05-Feb-2007 15:53
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Since got so many customers get same treatment from him why no report him to his company and get his rice bowl broken? I still thot it is an isolated case but now one more forumer voice out again? |
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geojam
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05-Feb-2007 15:06
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Bunbun may i know what u do for a living? I know elf is kind of civil service job(PM secretary).just joking. For me i retire or quit my full time job in year 2000.When i was in my 40's.Since then i KLKK and look after my investment. |
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elfinchilde
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05-Feb-2007 14:51
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frankauerbach, how absolutely unscrupulous of your broker. my commiserations. no, don't have to break his ricebowl, just stop dealing with him. If you and all your friends cut him out, his five figure salary is gonna drop fast. ;) keke, godpa, it's ok, age doesn't matter. or if you like, we can always call you shuai ge. and cling on either side of your arm. :P pls make sure the wife knows ah. haha. and haha, yea, no need to give house, i wanna earn my own! lightly won is lightly prized. that goes for BGR too. :) bunnie (yay i'm right!): it's ok to want to have me time. Remember always that even as a couple, you are first an individual. It's about being complementary, like binary planets, and not one 'we' singular mass. You aren't clones. besides, for things like exotic dance, how to bring the boyfriend along? cuts out the fun. ;) hm. now how do i find out how old you really are.... :P no! no guys allowed! shoo! muahahaaa. ok tata gotta work! |
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sohguanh
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05-Feb-2007 14:29
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Can blow whistle to the brokerage firm and break his rice bowl? :) |
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geojam
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05-Feb-2007 14:22
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I suppose u have to China,just like myself. I find them very realistic and things can always be "negotiated". I am happy to have 2 goddaughters to give me good financial advise.what more can i ask?I must be lucky.And best of all,they want nothing in return. |
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sohguanh
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05-Feb-2007 14:06
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Don't want house but want the cash correct? :P |
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bunbun
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05-Feb-2007 13:57
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sad isn't it? to know that the applicants are actually eyeing the reward rather than to genuinely want to be with the elderly couple. but then again, this is reality. unless there is actual carrot dangling there as a reward, else there is no motivation (let's forget about self actualisation as a motivator). don't worry, godpa, you don't need to put us in your will, me and elf don't want your house! *LOL* |
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chinkiasu
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05-Feb-2007 13:55
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oops, sorry.. bad joke... :-) oh, now this second question is a bit more difficult to answer generally... but I guess the way it is framed, i.e "go out with these people who are of different gender, without asking or wanting to ask, his/her partner along" suggest that it should not be normal. It sounded to me that the bgr relationship is not so good leh... but I think it is "normal" in that I mean that there is sometimes this temptation.... but having said that, sometimes "we dont want to ask or want to ask the partner along" may be becos it would spoil the fun for the people that you are going to be out with... for example if we (I mean the forumers) ask you out for a tea/dinner party etc.. or similar situations like that.. |
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geojam
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05-Feb-2007 13:43
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Just a bit of side tracking. Did u read in the papers about a old couple in China that adv.to adopt a daughter to keep them accompany as their son stay in Canada? the reward is that when they die,the house will be given to the daughter? Accordingly,the q for application to be their daughter was a mile long. |
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bunbun
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05-Feb-2007 13:40
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today feel happy. most counters still heading north (except HH. argh!!!) and realised profit from one of my babies so earned a bit bit coffee $. what's more, got adopted officially. if happiness can be so simply attained from a r/s and from stock market, i think i will be constantly and eternally happy as long as i am curbing my greed. godpa geojam, if i can be elf's pet (i'm quite qute sure i am older than elf), then of 'coz you can be our godpa :) |
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bunbun
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05-Feb-2007 13:39
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today feel happy. most counters still heading north (except HH. argh!!!) and realised profit from one of my babies so earned a bit bit coffee $. what's more, got adopted officially. if happiness can be so simply attained from a r/s and from stock market, i think i will be constantly and eternally happy as long as i am curbing my greed. godpa geojam, if i can be elf's pet (i'm quite qute sure i am older than elf), then of 'coz you can be our godpa :) |
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geojam
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05-Feb-2007 13:27
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Hi goddaughter(bunbun) Not so sure whether i am old enough to be the godpa for u and elf. Anyway welcome back. |
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bunbun
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05-Feb-2007 13:12
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*touch wood* chinkiasu, me always go 'next door' eat seafood leh, don't scare me leh about being mugged there. else, next time dare not go in liao :) ok, so it's established that IT IS normal to think and want to do 'ME' things. now here comes the er..."difficult" part. what if the 'ME' things that one wish to do, is to catch up with his/her friends? and if one happen to have more friends who are men or women, then in this case, is it normal that the 'ME' things that the person does or wish to do, is to go out with these people who are of different gender, without asking or wanting to ask, his/her partner along? hmmm..... is behaviour or thoughts like that normal and not considered self-centred? |
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chinkiasu
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05-Feb-2007 12:49
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hi bunnie!!! glad you're back safely and not get mugged or flooded... I am very impressed about your question, re ME & US thots.. i.e I mean that you worry over things like ME /US ratio in your thots.. i absolutely agree with giantlow that it is ok to think of ME things. in fact if we do not, I think it would be wierd... for example, i think in any relationship, we always have to look at ourselves and see how we can change our perspective/attitude if we really want to resolve issues that crop up... but I guess you may be talking of times when you want to have nothing with the other person... in this aspect, I think too this too is normal.. because you are Venus & he is Mars... for example, I like to spent time with the boys in a pub, and she may want to do just shopping |
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YongJiu
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05-Feb-2007 11:42
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well I think "ME" personal time is rather importance aspect for me. I need to spent time with myself alone and talk to my inner voice at time. But of course as the couple trying to build the same commom goal together, I guess is also time to think of how to integreate "ME" + "us" + " both side parents" as a whole. To me this integreation required lot of effort from both side and with the blessing & support from both side family! As for me I'm still on the learning stage... and still seeking the rite one to learn this together ^_* |
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giantlow
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05-Feb-2007 11:26
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hey hey bunbun, of course, its ok to think of "ME" things, cos u are an individual and have your own needs and wants. things start to get self centred when u see a trend (using simple TA.. hahaha) whereby "ME" is more impt than "US" or even "HIM/HER". i.e. when u need to choose between "ME" things and "US" or "HIM/HER" thing, u keep choosing "ME" things. |
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iPunter
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05-Feb-2007 11:17
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Welcome back bunbun... :) I think it is necessary for one to be given time just for themselves, to be with themselves in solitude without disturbance by another (whoever that may be), to be one's individuality, away from all others.. in our own space. That's absolutely important. And that is why the issue of compatibilty is so very important. Greater compatibilty reduces or even totally eradicate friction and assures long-term harmony. Compatibilty includes complementation, but not just commonality of interests. |
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bunbun
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05-Feb-2007 11:08
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*shouts* Godpa (geojam)!!!! Elf, ipunter, Chinkiasu, mighty giant, "forever" (yongjiu) and all, wah, i was just gone over the weekend in JB and there's so much exchanges on re/s and love and others (my gender for e.g). first, ME ME ME is a female, so no more guessing that i am man or woman. and bunbun = bunnie :) in view of the disussion of r/s (sorry i may be a little late on this topic), but, i think in general, men cheats more than women. it could be to prove their machorism, or simply because they are not very tolerant of the feeling of being alone and aloneliness. side-tracking on the infidelity of men a little, i like to ask a question that i been thinking... when you are in a r/s, is it normal to be thinking of 'ME' things sometimes? 'ME' things = things that you want to do alone or does not involve your spouse/gf/bf. or should one always always be thinking about 'US' things? if one wish to do things that do not involve his/her partner, is that person considered self-centred? am i normal to think of 'ME' things, or wishing to have 'ME' time? |
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